opinions please!!!!

[escapologist]

I already know what response im gunna get from this but writing it down and getting feedback would help me know I wouldn't be making a stupid decision. I've been with a guy for about 11 months, and he plays mind games with me all the time. If I tell him I love him, he won't say it back, he'll say " ditto ". I got a job, he was angry with me coz he wouldn't be spending as much time with me. I left the job, he was angry because I left it and would be skint. If I go and visit family for a few days, he falls out with me and when I return, he won't come see me for a while because he's sulking. He tells me I don't try hard enough to get a job because im "too picky", yet he doesn't try and get a job at all. I feel like im fighting for attention all the time because im just wanting him to show that he values being with me....just a little bit! Apologies for ranting but my family have offered for me to go back home and im tempted...he was so nice at the beginning, why isn't he now? Opinions would be much appreciated x

[thenry]

You have been with an unemployed alcoholic for 11 months. You need a break !

[Prudie]

As said absolutely classic control freak and I don't think they ever change. You need to leave if you can.

[Mick-Talbot]

Well at least he isn't into poopy and pee pee fun.

[boxtops]

You don't know that, Mick, escapologist says there is stuff she's not telling us.

[wiltsman]

Not one answer on here, so far, says stay with him.

It may hurt initially, but you've got to make the break.

You need to be strong.