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Me AGAIN!
So, I had (another) first date on Tuesday. Went for a drink with a guy I'd been chatting to for a week or so. Got on really well and had a good laugh. When we left he said he'd like to meet up again and then we texted a bit later on. Said I seemed really lovely blah blah and would really like to see me again. I replied saying yeah me too, blah blah and that I was heading to bed. Not heard anything from him since then.
I do realise that was only the day before yesterday but frankly he was a total hotty and we had loads in common so I'm an eager beaver. But I don't want to be too eager do I.
So, should I wait and see if he gets in touch with me or do you reckon I should make the next move and if so, when?
It's at this point I feel I should remind you that I am in fact 29 years old and not 13 as this question most likely portrays me to be but I've kept this one to myself from friends & family cos I'm tired of having to tell them it's going nowhere again and again so I have to ask you lot. :)
So, I had (another) first date on Tuesday. Went for a drink with a guy I'd been chatting to for a week or so. Got on really well and had a good laugh. When we left he said he'd like to meet up again and then we texted a bit later on. Said I seemed really lovely blah blah and would really like to see me again. I replied saying yeah me too, blah blah and that I was heading to bed. Not heard anything from him since then.
I do realise that was only the day before yesterday but frankly he was a total hotty and we had loads in common so I'm an eager beaver. But I don't want to be too eager do I.
So, should I wait and see if he gets in touch with me or do you reckon I should make the next move and if so, when?
It's at this point I feel I should remind you that I am in fact 29 years old and not 13 as this question most likely portrays me to be but I've kept this one to myself from friends & family cos I'm tired of having to tell them it's going nowhere again and again so I have to ask you lot. :)
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Evian -take heed of us oldies - I don't care if its 2013 or 1913 -men are men - if they can't put an effort into persuading you on a date then they are not worth going on a date - ! - have never ever asked a man on a date and wouldn't dream of it -when I was younger and before Mr. Mags of course -he had to chase me for weeks before I would go out on a date -despite him being a total sex god biker who -yes -road raced at club level and owned his own business -he had women coming up to him and asking him out in pubs -and one even put a note through his door (this was 25 years ago before texts thank god - Get off those daft dating(sex) sites and go get a real man in the real world ;-)
magsmay
\\\\Get off those daft dating(sex) sites and go get a real man in the real world ;-) \\\
Not so easy....all the "real men" as you put it, have been taken and all that that is left are the "odd bods" and "grungies"
Now, thanks to the wives completely mishandling their marriage, then "real men" may occasionally become available.
You see on AB the stock reply of our ABer women following a post on infidelity....." drop the b@stard, you are too good for him" when so often, it is the other way round...she is not "good enough" to keep him...for whatever reason, but basically sexual.
So there your are, you've dropped the b@stasrd and where does that leave you?//Back to the "odd bods" and the "grungies" or the dating sites where one is likely to meet the unfaithful husband.
Isn't often a case of ....."better the devil popup know?"
\\\\Get off those daft dating(sex) sites and go get a real man in the real world ;-) \\\
Not so easy....all the "real men" as you put it, have been taken and all that that is left are the "odd bods" and "grungies"
Now, thanks to the wives completely mishandling their marriage, then "real men" may occasionally become available.
You see on AB the stock reply of our ABer women following a post on infidelity....." drop the b@stard, you are too good for him" when so often, it is the other way round...she is not "good enough" to keep him...for whatever reason, but basically sexual.
So there your are, you've dropped the b@stasrd and where does that leave you?//Back to the "odd bods" and the "grungies" or the dating sites where one is likely to meet the unfaithful husband.
Isn't often a case of ....."better the devil popup know?"
Men are men and always will be -women are becoming too aggressive in their courting rituals (go on laugh I couldn't think of a better word) If I were a man I would be totally turned off by some desperate spinster constantly contacting me -like I said -if a man finds you sexy and thinks he might get something he will pester YOU
