General Advice Please GuysPeople

[chrisuk013]

i met this girl through a friend of mine,and we went out on a date and got on VERY well.I stayed over at her place the night and we slept together,but before we slept together she said to me 'nothing was ment to happen'. Low and behold it did,and that was that.Then she said ' i feel mad at myself now for letting it happen' I was speaking to her last night,only a night after we had slept together.We agreed to go out on another date,fantastic you would think.But then she sent me a text saying ' Am not looking for anything serious,but am sure you are ok with that'.Am wanting to ask her wether she is planning to see anyone else,whilst we are dating.but is this cheeky...? now is the type of girl i wanna be really getting involved with....?,Or am i reading the signs wrong...? plz tell me what u think. I understand girls need time etc,but am confused

[MiniN]

i think if she said that then you won't be her boyfriend so i guess she can see other guys too. if your looking for a relationship then i think this girl is not for you, she obviously doesnt want one. but if your looking for a bit of fun to pass the time untill you meet someone who likes you alot more than get it on with her.

thats my advice as a girl x

[fairkatrina]

As a girl (who dates girls) I think she didn't want to seem easy by sleeping with you on the first night, and then felt that she'd let herself down by doing so. She must like you to have slept with you, and she obviously wants something more if she's agreed to date you. I think she's testing to see if you only want sex now she's slept with you so quickly (we're told that it's all that men want, and if you put out quickly then that's all they'll ever think you're good for). Don't force the issue of a relationship, just wait and see what evolves. And - most importantly - don't expect sex off her just because she slept with you so soon, let her know that you are interested in more than her body, and that she can take her time with you. She will be impressed with your understanding, and (haha) more likely to put out again!

[stokeace]

i hope you wore a condom mate.......id be checking myself for sores on a regular basis if you didnt.

[teag1rl]

what fairkatrina said I reckon

[NORMANTHEDOG]

and your still only 12 chris.

[curlyperm]

NORMAN!!! youre wandering again........................off you go, back to motoring!! there are people there whove been driving without insurance etc that need a good telling off! ; )

[darrensmith]

she sounds like a right head f**k ! don't get involved in her twisted little mind games.

[curlyperm]

listen cris, i'm keeping my eye on NORMAN he keeps sneaking out of Motoring, and popping up here there and everywhere! dont think he's gay tho, cos hes got his beady eyes on me i think heheheheheheheheh!!

[mrknowall]

Just have some fun lad.
Life is too short you could get ran over by a bus.
I do understand what they all are saying.
But i go out every night clubs/pubs what i see i glad im not married.
If i was i keep a good watch over her and your best mate.

[jasperthomas]

Once a "Dick" always a "Dick" stick to football