This is getting hard.

[-Em-mE-]

I am really starting to miss the guy. I am still in love with him. I have tryed to forget about it and push everything out. But I cannot. I am missing everything with us. I feel ouitta place when I talk to him or even have any contact...The dance was so fun. I got my mind off him, danced with guys and just hung out with the girls...I had a blast...But I am still really...really struggling.

[tiny e.a]

My advice is to cut off contact with him until your over him.

[teag1rl]

my advice too. I've always done the staying friends thing, but I really had fallen for the last one. keeping in contact was pointless and a blazing row about something quite important (at the time) at the weekend followed by a good bitch about what a tit he is and plenty of fun with other people and there's no-one I'd like to talk to less. Just do other things, surround yourself with friends and keep going out dancing! You need to be busy so thoughts of him don't creep in.

[lizzydrippin]

Whats the alternative to letting him go Em? is there one? do you have a choice on whether to be with him or not? or is it all up to him? is he in love with you? or does he just like the idea of having you there as a soft place to fall back on when he needs you? I think all you can do is to follow your instincts Em and see where they take you, but be careful not to lose yourself.

[Reverandfunk]

Personally the old staying friends bit dont work as one of you wants to end it and the other doesn't and by staying friends the let down party always thinks they are still in with a chance