I was told by my friends that I should ask out this girl which I have known for ages. She is REALLY funny & she thinks I am REALLY funny too (It was apparantly obvious I suited her). I asked her "What would you do if I asked you out?" She said "I dunno - why?" I said "I'm just wondering" I then told her if I did ask her out if it would be a yes or a no - she said it would be a YES. I told her that I was being serious when asking her out (I asked her but unsure if she meant it seriously). I also told my friend (One of them who thought I should ask her out) that she said yes. My question is if you think that do you think she actually means yes (In a girlfriend/boyfriend way) or she was joking about. Also what should I do now, in your opinion? Thnx.
I don't think she was joking. It's pretty straightforward what it means to ask someone out, well at least it was in my day.
Just ask her out on a date.
All the best.
Believe me, if a girl responds 'yes' to being asked 'would you go out with me if I asked you' then she's keen.
I would say to her 'so what night are we going out then?' - if she's serious (which she is) she'll suggest a day. If not (doubtful) you can just laugh it off. Go for it and good luck.
all you need now is communication! Just ask her n say 'were we joking or were we serious?' so that you put yourself in it aswell and dont look like such a prat! lol
If she says it wasnt serious, well then you already know she'll say say when it IS serious, so go for it!
If she was serious its just a case of 'so was i' and voila! All done and dusted!
Aw bless! You sound so lovely! Go ahead and ask her - sounds like you are good enough friends to laugh it off if she says no. You never know, you might be missing out on something that could be really good!
Awwww, Jazzman. Ask her out (as soon as she is better!), I am sure she will say yes. Why not buy her some flowers if she is unwell? Friends can do that for eachother too.
I hope you have a great time wherever you decide to go, let us know how it goes :-) X