relationship help

[SHELLP]

I am having trouble getting my ex patrner out of my head one minute i hate him the next I still have some sort of feelings for him. He is in a new relationship less than 5 weeks after we broke up it was a very messy end and he is due in crown court for assulting me which could result in a custodial sentence. He seems to be getting on with his life whilst mine is in tatters, I am on antideppresants and sleeping tablets.I am going out with my friends but just putting a face on things every minute is spent thinking of him, I dont even think I want him back I am just so confused and if Cant get him out of my head soon will end up contacting him against advice of police. He cannot contact me because of bail. My doctor says I am suffering post traumatic stress cos of the attack and is arranging counselling but there is a waiting list and I need help now. He is badmouthing me to everyone and telling them the assult was all my fault trying to cover up for himself but I still feel guilt.

[legend758]

Love can be twisted and bitter as well as sweet.

Good luck

[Drisgirl]

aww bless ya -I am feeling the pain you are going through -its gut wrenching-it doesnt matter how many people tell you that you will get through it -you ont get throuigh it until you are ready.

I know what you mean about the court -dont worry yourself about that -justice will be done -you are still concentrating on hIm and his new bird -dont punish yourself further.

Its dirty nasty hurtful stomach is in a knot but believe me-you wont be the first nor the last -its so sore -I know what youre feeling but you will get over that eventually -please believe me hun xxx

[Le Chat]

He can tell other people what he likes about what happened but anyone with any ounce of integrity will see through him (especially it they know him) and the truth will out in court. Don't dwell on what other people might or might not think. Something I always say to myself is " We wouldn't worry what other people thought of us, if we knew how little they actually did."
So whilst you are thinking about the repercussions of his lies, most people actually aren't that bothered. It's true!
This man is a psycho- hosebeast and you need to avoid him, keep your head down and don't be goaded by anything he says in court.
Be glad that you found him out.

[sir.prize]

SHELLP. . . . Yu have some good friendly advice there. I am sure you will be fine. Things will hurt right now - but time really does heal. Good luck.

Nice to see the offensive SpamBammer got the chop by AB Editor!!!