Friendships

[eash]

They're a funny old thing aren't they?
I just text my so called best friend telling her I have a job interview later this week and got this reply: "Well done on interview. Hope it goes well. But 2 be honest I've got enough on my plate without continuing 2 be a mug. So I'm done"

I have no idea what she means by that. I can't think of anything I would have done to upset her but maybe it's nothing to do with me? I text her back asking what's up and what she means but nothing yet....

We're 25 years old as well!

[Velvetee]

Maybe someone told her you said something about her?
Perhaps she feels put upon by you for some reason, but you don't realise?
Maybe she's just had a bad day. You should probably phone, rather than text to find out the problem.

[sara3]

sounds like she thinks it's something to do with you!

[Leapers]

hey eash, its just an idea but maybe she thinks you wanted an ego boost or something to make you feel more confident or give you a big head about the interview whether or not thats what you wanted she obviosuly got the wrong end of the stick.

Also being 25yrs old means nothing age is the body the mind is totally different the other day one of my friends threw a hissy fit over one of our other friends sitting in the chair she was half an hour ago and thought she would re-occupy it but completely went mad!! funny people!!

[Octavius]

I agree with velvetee, phone and see how she is and ask what she meant - maybe she needs to talk about something.

[cazzz1975]

ask her!

[cazzz1975]

yes, dont wait for text, good or bad at least you will know whats up, she might be just feeling a bit down?

[sara3]

if she has a lot on her plate, why don't you know about it if you're such good friends? have you been there for her? if she's been in need of some support but had none, then only had a text when you had good news, she would rightly be put out.

[puddicat]

maybe ure txt hsnt got to her yet,and maybe it has gone to the wrong person! just trying every option lol!!!

[stonekicker]

why don't you text her back, tell her to fuff off and call her a rude cow. and be done with HER. job done...simple!

[eash]

She text me back saying "It means I don't want to be a mug anymore. You've made ur choices & I've made mine. I now know where loyalties lie & I don't have to put up wiv that anymore. I'm thru"

I still have no idea what she means and I'm not psychic so if she has got a lot on her plate she needs to tell me. She was fine yesterday when we spoke....

I know I should have phoned her but it's getting late now and I'd rather she tell me over text what's wrong so then we could arrange to meet up to sort it out.... So i text her saying that I still don't know what she means?

The saga continues.....

[Octavius]

Do you work together?

[cazzz1975]

well txt her back and ask her what she is on about? ask her if you have upset her ??

[China Doll]

Oh for FFS... Stop ninnying around and phone the girl if she she means that much to you and have a bl00dy conversation.

[unhappychick]

Sounds like your freinds has a lot going on at the mo, maybe she feels you are not there to listen? and when you text your good news about the job interview maybe she thought you were trying to rub salt into the wounds...which obviously your not, but is just how she is feeling...go pay her a visit and get to the bottom of it!

[MiniN]

eash,

definately talk to her on the phone or in person. texts will never help. if she really is your best friend then i'm sure you don't want to lose her. be direct with her.

i agree with unhappychick, perhaps your text came at the wrong time and she got upset that your not helping her with her problems.

let us know how you get on.

[mydogsandme]

definitely phone-you can't cary on a conversation by text. She at least owes you a proper explanation and needs to hear your side. Let us know.

[sqad617]

For threads Friendship and F*cking Women.

To you both...the sooner that you learn that women do not have the word LOGIC in their vocabulary, the sooner you will come to understand them.

[Eve]

Did you get hold of her?

If not, do you have a mutual friend you could ask?

Could it be she feels like you've neglected her recently and maybe also caught her in a bad mood?

Could she have heard before you told her?

Could you have both unknowingly gone for the same job?

[news-legend]

Getting late?

At 22.25 ??


And youre 25 you say ??
Jesus call her and stop being a t1t.

Theres obviously more to this than you either know or are letting on.


If you dont call then i suspect its because you know and youre avoiding calling her.

[blondie83]

I wish i had the guts your mate has. Have you ever thought that maybe you don't treat her the way you should teat a friend? I'm just going from my personal experience here, but my 'best mate' constantly lies to me, and she honestly believes that i'm unaware of it. So far i just humour her but im getting to the stage where i was wanna say 'enough is enough' and i know for a fact that if i did, she would (claim to) have no idea why......