i think things like this hone down your own ideas about what is acceptable and what isnt................
to me, as someone who uses an interent site also
1) never bother with a man who lives beyond reasonable travelling distance to yourself ( and thats less than 1/2 hours journey)
2) be wary of a man who hasnt got a car and wont get on a train.................hes probably just lazy
3) always get more info than a mobile no.........they wont like it, but if they are really interested in you they will give it..... an email address as a very very poor minimum, but you should know where they work at least. - if you know where he lives then you could write.
4) if you only have a mobile number then theres a very good chance he is hiding something ( im not being sexist i would say this if the roles were reversed ) .
5) dont ever ever kiss a man who you dont have the above information on ever ...................... and dont think just cos he kissed you he liked you...................
i would consider that you were not safe when you met this man personally and would advise you to think about that !!!
as to him not telling you why hes not wanting to contact you again.......................
again my view
1) its got nothing to do with you................
2) he liked you enough to give you a nice day and a kiss and a cuddle, but not enough to tell you that that was all
3) thats fair enough, not every one will light his fire, just as not every man will light yours, it isnt because you arent good enough for him, its just that for him you arent the one.
4) you will meet some men you feel the same way about and then you will see what i mean.
4) but he was not so nice in not letting you know at least by text.
5) but hey ! lots of people wouldnt bother to tell you - and be really honest - if you havent done the same you probably