This is tricky.
On Friday, a guy whi didn't look after himself posted a picture of his torso, and asked if it looked good. Here ...
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/B eauty/Question663736.html
Everyone said he looked gross, should look after himself, should go to the gym, etc.
But now, you are describing a girl who seems to be just the same.
Instead of saying Yes, she too should look after herself ...
... ABers are now saying you should like her for who she is !!!
Well, nobody told Ms Soft Belly that he shouldn't worry, and that people should like him for who he is.
Why the sudden reversal in opinions?
I say this as a compulsive exercise freak and gym rat, who knows that anyone can get themselves into a healthier condition with a bit of effort.