I have officially dumped him

[angel21]

I feel painfully sad :(

[Schutzengel]

It's hard to do Angel, but it's probably for the best.

[angel21]

ok :(

[yogi.bear]

Just come on......first time this evening and i see "i have officially dumped him" and "i feel painfully sad"


Please explain, lovely angel x

...................what happened?
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[yogi.bear]

Waited up a bit for a reply, angel......

i'm now off to the hammock!

If you have dumped him....good for you!......fresh start and you can begin working on 'your list' you posted earlier..........

Hope you don't feel sad for too long as deep down, you MUST know it's probably the best thing you can do!.....for you!

Night, angel and sweet dreams xxx

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[Velvetee]

Hi Angel, sorry to hear your unhappy news, were you together for long?

[mrs.chappie]

Err .... nono, did you learn your bedside manner from sqad?

LOL LOL.

[angel21]

4 years then apart 18 months then back together for 2 months

off to bed to see if I can sleep

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see u tomorrow

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[No,Knowledge]

nite Karma

[angel21]

Nite noknow

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could do more but can't be bothered

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[jno]

of course you'll feel sad, you've removed a chunk of your past life. But as it was a chunk that made you unhappy, you will eventually find it brings you peace of mind. Eventually. Don't expect it to happen overnight. You'll have to be strong for quite a while. But you have taken control of your own destiny, and that's always good.

[khoey]

I feel painfully sad :( '

so why did you dump him
i really don't understand why you feel "painfully sad if you really wanted to be with him could`nt you have tried to resolve any problems you both had if it hurts you so much to finish with him,it should be the guy that is receiving feel better soon wishes.

[CAJ1]

Hi Angel,

I hope you've woken up feeling a bit better. Well done for making such a big step forward, tick that item off your list! This is going to be hard but worth it. You can start over now, try to keep busy to keep your mind off him. If you keep going back you will continue feeling the way you are now and you don't want that. There are loads of people on here who are happy to help you so if you're feeling crap let us know! It takes a lot of courage to do what you have so feel proud of yourself and gain some well-earned confidence!

xx

PS: Make sure you put some clean clothes on today lol! :o)

[rinkins]

Hi Angel,

You know it was the right thing to do. I concur with everything CAJ says. Try and keep yourself busy, make some quality time for you too. I know it feels pants right now, but you know where we are if you need us xx

[angel21]

I don't feel any better. I feel worse.

I don't know if I've done the right thing.

I think I may have got the wrong end of the stick about some things.

[angel21]

It's worse than the last time we broke up.

I feel terrible :(

[angel21]

I feel so unsure of everything. I was upset when we talked so still don't feel like we've talked about everything. I feel like I might have assumed too much without actually asking him.

[CAJ1]

Angel, no matter what type of relationship you come out of you will always doubt whether or not you have done the right thing. This isn't the first time you've split, there is no trust between you and you don't seem happy when you are with him so you have done the right thing. Don't go back and ruin your hard work, you'll only end up where you are right now again sometime in the future

[angel21]

I am happy when I'm with him but I feel unsure if I had good enough reasons to leave. Some of the reasons I'm not sure on. Like did he cheat or didn't he - cus he said he did and then he said he didn't and he said to me that he hadn't kissed a girl since we been apart but then he said that the knickers I found were from when we were apart.

So he has lied but I forgot to tell him that reason.

I feel like we need to talk again cus I still don't feel clear in my head. Need to talk when I feel calm and clear at the moment I just feel sad very very sad!!!!

I don't know if I should text him and tell him we need to talk some more.

[gossipgirl]

ending any relationship is sad but theres a reason youve ended it and thats what youve got to keep remembering. Why did you end it anyway?