Are all men like this???

[shanilisa]

I am becoming increasingly disillusioned with men. I met a lovely guy at our local medical centre - both of us were taking our children to the same doctor and got chatting. He sent me a text the next day and over the next couple of weeks we chatted and mailed. He said he was divorced with one child. We eventually went out for dinner to a lovely restaurant and had a great evening. Chatted over the weekend, then on the Monday he says "he needs to talk to me face to face" - guess what?? Yes, he is still married and living in the same house as his wife. I told him to get lost. I think that I am also feeling stupid for falling for his charm. Having come from a relationship where my husband cheated on me, one would think I would have realised that this guy was still married.

[sqad617]

Yes.

[yogi.bear]

Rotter..............gives us a bad name!!

:0)

[shanilisa]

I love your honesty! Thanks for that!

[LatinaLover]

Are all men like this???

No,not the dead ones.

[Bbbananas]

I disagree.
There are a lot of rotters out there, but there are also a lot of decent honest guys.

[happyone2]

Definately................either you didnt want to know and ignored the evidence or you didnt ask the questions that would have told you what you needed to know.

also a quick check of www.192.com would have told you who was registered to his home address !!!

[Marijn]

The majority are weak and dishonest.
You will find someone nice eventually, there are some good ones.

[ummmm]

Sqad....that's b0llocks. No they are not all like that shanilisa.

[sara3]

sqad is like that!

[redcrx]

back in the 60s my mum went on a couple or dates with a man, one week he said he couldnt take her out but would see her following week. He picked her up the following week and just casually dropped into conversation that he was unable to see her because he was at his own wedding and honeymoon.

they dont change

[sqad617]

shanilisa.....look at it from the man's point of view.

Physical attraction is the first part of a relationship....so....you see a girl that you physically fancy i.e you want her sexualy......do you:

1) Introduce yourself and say "I am married with 2 kids, but I want a sexual relationship with you OR
2) Introduce yourself as divorced/single and say that you want a sexual relationship?

Don't let's be silly here....sex is the main initial attraction.

[redcrx]

you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince :)

[Bbbananas]

Sqad just pretends to be like that; I think he covers up for himself being a nice guy underneath with all that bluff and bluster.

Then again, he really could be just a dirty old barstard.... He still makes me laugh though :-)

[sara3]

haven't I kissed enough frogs now?

[sqad617]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1195 624/French-women-dont-just-tolerate-husbands-a ffairs--expect-them.html

[LatinaLover]

redcrx
Fri 26/06/09
11:05
you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince :)

Ahh so thats what the french are doing...

[ummmm]

Ok....put it this way. Some men just can't be bothered. My Bf included.

Some men have enough at home....my BF included.

[sqad617]

redcrx....LOL LOL

[Bbbananas]

I've never kissed a frog... (although there was that exchange visit ....)

I have however kissed a couple of asses.