my son spending time with my ex and other woman.

[imajenarry]

my ex moved out nearly 3 months ago because he had a lot of things going on and wanted spce to think about how he felt about us. i worked out a week later there is someone else to this day he has denied anything going on with her (altho in what i think was a rare moment of truth he told me that he liked her but wasn't sure how she felt about him and maybe this was just a fling and we could work things out in the future!!! like i would have him!) at the moment he sees our son 2 evenings a week and one night either on fri or sat night .(altho i can see that this will soon dwindle off) he never takes him anywhere but this wkend he told me that he took him to an event at our town park til 10.30(way too late for our son)then my son told me tonight that he went to park with daddy & sammy (other woman) i can't tell u how bad that made me feel. am i expecting too much that my ex should tell me what's going on with this person especially if son is going to be spending time with her . to be honest i don't want son spending time with the person that helped to split up his parents. want to tell my ex this but i know he'll either deny it or tell me again that she's just a mate and will not take my wishes into account anyway. any thoughts on this please.? i'm finding things are just getting harder.

[Ice.Maiden]

To be frank imajenarry, any man like this is a waste of time. You'd be better off having nothing to do with him, apart from allowing him access to your son at some mediation point.

[MethMan]

Please dont listen to a word that ice maiden says imajenarry, ice maiden is friends witha very dangerous paedophile and cannot be trusted under ANY Circumstances.......

[imajenarry]

I don't know what the issue is here..i've got enough stuff going on methman-your reply isn't helpful. ice.maiden has always come across as very helpful and genuine

[Ice.Maiden]

Thank you imajenarry.

This troll has been reported many times tonight for his filth and libellous statements.
Sorry you had to get him on your thread. He's obviouslky in great need of help.

I hope your situation works out hun. x

[imajenarry]

you're welcome hun. and thankyou for your kind advice.

[maggie01]

I don't know how old your husband is but it sounds like a mid life crisis. Yes I know some people don't believe in all this but I went through the same thing with my ex husband 2yrs ago and found this site. www.midlifecrisisforum.com. It is worth a look just to see if this relates to your husband.

I hope it doesn't but good luck.

My ex told me this woman he was spending time with was just a friend but she helped to split our marriage of 40yrs up.