I have been masturbating ever since i could remember and i my boyfriend doesn't know, but i recently found out that he thinks self pleasure is gross. I feel like i should tell him what i do. Should i?

[snowflake7]

[zabado]

There are two types of people .
Those who masturbate and liars.

[ChuckFickens]

"I have been masturbating ever since i could remember"

You must be knackered!

[B00]

Why should you tell him anything? Sod all to do with him!

I do have to question though how anyone could find something so natural and normal "gross"...?

[DEN53]

I am with B00 on this - why should you tell him.

[NoMercy]

Jeez... you do realise you could go blind, don't you...

[joggerjayne]

LOL Chuck

snowflake, tell him that you love a DIY, and that you'd like to do it to him too ...

Guys are much more inhibited about this. They don't like to admit that they do it. The rest of us chat about it, and go out buying buzzy toys together.

Send him a text saying "I'm having a DIY and thinking about you"

Or drag him into an adult shop, and get him to choose a toy with you.

And show him this ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxOR2GHJDoM

... it's all SO true !!!

[NoMercy]

Unlike JJ... I can't afford all these fancy gadgets. I have, however, worked my fingers to the bone.

[joggerjayne]

Mr Buzzy rabbit is not a "fancy gadget"

He's my friend.

And my buzzy bullet key ring is ...

Well, it's handy if you're in slow traffic, LOL

[NoMercy]

Imagine being charge with being delirious in charge of a vehicle...

[dustypuss]

Can I watch 8-)

[joggerjayne]

ha ha, yes

Hence the expression ...

Are you getting the train?

No, I'm coming in my car.

[joggerjayne]

hi, Dusty

Do you think snowflake has gone?

(probably treating herself to a DIY while the BF is out)

[dustypuss]

It not fair a women dose it and its called self gratification no problem

a bloke dose it and he called a w@nker

[craft1948]

Please don't do this whilst driving.........

[joggerjayne]

dusty ... I think that is part of the problem.

Men have created this image that real men only have sex with women ... not on their own.

It's seen as a bit emasculating.

Not sure if there's any solution to that one.

[laura_x]

just going to say you poor thing, i do it every night and boyfriend doesn't mind it at all hahaha

[top_driver]

if you want to tell him, you shouldn't havto be afraid of it, and if he is a ***k about it, he not worth your time, even though he prob does it himself..,. even if he doesn't and doesn't like it, it should be a case of ok fair enough.. anyway, happy 'batin

[Bbbananas]

It's your business and your bits.... you don't have to tell him anything.
It might be a tad insensitive to start doing it in the living room in front of him, especially if it's a programme he's particularly looked forward to watching. But hey - just go into another room.

(I bet he does it.....)

[redman41]

Carry on but eat plenty of Carrots....haven't seen a blind rabbit yet !