sexuality?

[sad old git]

Hi. A " discussion"started between two friends of mine about homosexuality.One said that the gene is in there when you are born and comes out in later years. My other friend who is a retired psychiartry ( spelling) nurse argues that it is all in the mind and as was said earlier not in the genes. I tend to agree with my friend about it being your genes but would appreciate any answers

[LoftyLottie]

But he is actually quite 'pretty' Redman.

Complex subject really. I'll get back to my garden ;o)

[ummmm]

I don't find him attractive at all....

[mccfluff]

lol JL are you playing windup?

so what if you like both men and woman how does that work on the genetics side of things?

[LoftyLottie]

Actually ummmm, I would rather have Daniel Craig - blow his personality or soh, just one look at him would be enough!!

[redman41]

I think the last Film I viewed with Johnny Depp was 'Public Enemies', excellent Film which I'm sure you would enjoy Lofty. To me he was not pretty but macho ! lol

[ummmm]

He doesn't do it for me either :-(

[redman41]

Watched 'Defiance' with Daniel Craig in it the other night Lofty. You would like that ! :-)

[mccfluff]

i don;t get the jonny depp thing, he's a great actor but i can;t see the attraction

[LoftyLottie]

Will have to watch it ummmm! Am getting all hot and bothered now thinking of Daniel Craig.

[redman41]

By the time we get to the end of this thread I will have turned Bi-sexual ! Ha Ha

[LoftyLottie]

LOL

I very much doubt it Redman

Have a nice weekend x

I'm off.

[cazzz1975]

I can see that someone is attractive but I would have no interest in a woman whatsoever romantically. sexually. not even curiously

[Sqad]

There is no scientific evidence, so far, to identify a "gay gene" and personally I think that homosexuality is environmental or "nurtured"

I agree with redman, I could not have or even had the inclination to, have sex with a man and I am "uncomfortable" in their presence.

Oddly enough, I more readily accept female homosexuality and it actually may turn me on.

[redman41]

Agree with you Squad. The sight of a man's naked hairy clinker infested bum is a turn off. :-)

[rowanwitch]

Would be a worthy ambition for you redman, I see it as a scope for personal development...
Joelike is at the other far end of the the spectrum, he is a lost cause in this lifetime...

[LoftyLottie]

Still here. You have just turned me off men Redman with that description. However, I have no intention of changing sides................... I

[rowanwitch]

Sqad, the commonest phrase you get from men when they find out you ar a woman who likes women is something around I've always been turned on... or can I watch...

something I have always been puzzled by,, when i have read male books in the gay fiction section they seem a lot about finding 'the one, romance and tenderness' the girls books pretty hardcore in a lot of cases

[redman41]

Ha Ha rowan !
Having been in the Navy and mixing with Gay people both Male and Female has never been a problem. My personal Steward on one ship I was on was totally Gay and used to go ashore dressed up in evening Ladies wear. If I didn't know who he was I may have fallen in love with her ! lol

[Sqad]

rowan ...didn't understand your last paragraph (my fault, not yours)

Are you saying that male homosexuality is more emotional than female homosexuality?
I have never been in a gay book shop..........or gay pub.............or anything gay :-)

[LoftyLottie]

Thats nice Redman. I don't trust men who say they don't like gays or won't mix with them. I think it's often because they have problems about their own sexuality!