Infatuation

[strawberryblonde]

I met a man over a year ago and we have constantly flirted despite him being in an off on relationship, we spend hours talking when bump into each other and had a night together but I got cold feet months after I told his partner he ranted at me but stayed in the bar with me rather than following her ( I know this was wrong but I was upset). I avoided him for ages but now over the last few weeks he seems to be everywhere I go and just stares so last Friday I spoke to him and he told me his entire life story and how bad he is feeling i wanted to walk away but couldn't the following day I saw him with his partner but whe he spoke she went off at him and he left her alone.
I am now seeing someone else not seriously we both know this but I cant get the other one out of my head when I see him I feel alive.

Any advice on how I can get him out of my head appreciated .

[4getmenot]

because you know its not going anywhere, as you said you are afraid of commitment

[strawberryblonde]

Cheers I know you are right but he turns me on so much x

[Jerra]

You feel drawn in and constantly attracted because he's unavailable, both emotionally and romantically. This is his *mystery*.

It's a mirage