swinging

[curiositykills]

has anyone on here ever tried this? is it as good as it sounds or is it the old 'dirty fat old men' trying it on with 'dirtier fatter old women' and not the glamorous porn fest it sounds?

im getting more and more sexually curious as the years pass and feel like im not exploring enough and making the most of situations.

ive heard of a couple of swinging clubs in the north but I am so scared of setting foot in one I dont think I will get over the fear!!!

[Sqad]

Fine........but does HE know that he could discus such things, as in my opinion, in many cases, similar to a a parent and child, " does a wife REALLY, know her husband?

Why should he discuss his sexual eccentricities (if he has any) with the partner who offers the dawn of prosperous and fulfilling relationship?............He wouldn´t.

[Bbbananas]

I agree with you wholeheartedly barmaid.
I'm a big believer in what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander - or whatever the expression is. If you can't take it, you shouldn't give it - that sort of thing.

Sqad - not saying at all that swinging, 3-somes, swapping etc etc are perverted. Not calling you peverted. Just saying that surely not all men have sex on the brain and are 'up for anything' all of the time, any time, with anyone.

If someone is happy to do something without being co-erced, pressured, blackmailed, bribed - whatever, that no that is not peversion.

[Sqad]

salla....quite.

[Barmaid]

Whilst on a general level I can see the force in your opinion, it is just that - a generalisation. Our relationship is largely based on the ability to discuss anything. It's not a theoretical basis it is a practical thing that is evidenced daily. His sexual confidence was practically non-existent when I met him (due to his ex, the evil witch) so we are on a long long (but extremely fulfilling) road.

[Sqad]

barmaid........then that is the bottom line.

P.S Don´t forget the expensive underwear ;-)

[Hazel104]

If you want to try something different try a fetish club.
Google one like Torture Garden. They are safe as there are quite strict rules, no means no and lots of staff to go to, if anyone does over step the mark their out.
I do warn you though you will see all sorts, but you can avoid the really out there stuff by just not going into those rooms.

[BagPussAA]

If you are up north, try going to Infusion in Blackpool. It is friendly, fun and if you do not see a member that you want to swing with - there is NO obligation to do anything. It has a bar, swimming pool and areas to relax in. We went for the first time about 4 years ago and love it there. Sometimes when we go, all we do is have a swim and a chat to other members. Check out their website www.infusionblackpool.co.uk

[TTG]

This scene is usually couples looking for other like-minded couples. Being a single gentleman, you need to be very patient. It's best if you get to know people as friends in forums/chatrooms. Don't be too pushy and be cool with a polite "no thanks". If they want to take things further, they will usually initiate the first social meeting to see how you all get on. Who knows? You might get to "third base"! I've had a few experiences like this. Chat first, social meeting then the all important third meeting.

Hope you get lucky.