swinging

[curiositykills]

has anyone on here ever tried this? is it as good as it sounds or is it the old 'dirty fat old men' trying it on with 'dirtier fatter old women' and not the glamorous porn fest it sounds?

im getting more and more sexually curious as the years pass and feel like im not exploring enough and making the most of situations.

ive heard of a couple of swinging clubs in the north but I am so scared of setting foot in one I dont think I will get over the fear!!!

[ummmm]

From your other post I'm guessing you're single?

So....someone lets you do naughties with their husband....what are you giving them? Or do you expect them to sit and watch?

[ummmm]

Swap husband for wife in my answer....no pun intended.

[brenda]

I know 2 couples who go to a swinging club, and -- oh dear me.Both women have faces like a busted mattress and the men have hang down beer bellies.None of them are up to much as far as personal hygiene is concerned ,But perhaps these things are relative as the evening progresses.Have never been tempted to find out.

[Greedyfly]

Lol Curiosity. I guess you won't know until you try it really.

I would imagine everyone who does it was shy at the beginning, I guess you just have to be open minded and stay safe in manners of the word. Do you have a partner?.

[bobjugs12]

I knew a couple a few years back who were big into the swinging scene. Neither were attractive, nor particularly sexy. In fact, they invited me and my ex-wife to join them one night (followed by some hasty excuses and an even hastier exit on our part).

[zimmer]

If my wife suggested anything like this she'd be swinging pdq.

[Greedyfly]

Different strokes for different folks and all that!

[Bbbananas]

My neighbours are notorious swingers. I often sit in the garden late on a weekend night, listening to the shennanigans (they have a hot tub & 'party' area in the back garden). Each to their own - they certainly seem to have a good time.

I think you need to be a certain sort of person to be a swinger. If you're a jealous sort, it wouldn't work. I think the danger of it is that one partner 'falls' for a swappee and wants to take it further than the odd dalliance.
My neighbours wife didn't want to try it initially, but her husband gave her an ultimatum - join in & the marriage is over. I'd have told him to go to hell, but she said yes & now enjoys the whole scene as much as, if not more, than him !!

Personally, I couldn't go for it.

[McMouse]

You breaker of dreams salla.

[Bbbananas]

I have been asked to wife swap - twice. I was tempted - once.

Maybe a one-on-one, but an outright orgy? Nah.

[bobjugs12]

I can't belive theres not one person on here who's not had a proper go at it.....or have they and they're just keeping quiet about it?

So go on then, which ABer does everybody think has the kinkiest, naughtiest history? I reckon it's gotta be Miss McFluff, dirty birdy that she is!

[McMouse]

I had a 3-in-a-bed many years ago.

[bobjugs12]

Details????

[Bbbananas]

Male-Female-Male or
Female-Male-Female
McM - it makes a difference.

[bobjugs12]

or Male-Female-Sheep?

[mccfluff]

oi bobs

ha ha ha ha i'm staying quiet for once

[bobjugs12]

Come on fluffy, share some sordid details with the class

[Bbbananas]

I did a striptease once at a party. To Roxy Music's 'Slave to Love'.
That went down well.

[mccfluff]

not a fecking chance (snigger)

[Davethedog]

I have always suspected, that like so many things, the fantasy will never live up to the reality. I have no intention of finding out though.