Suspected cheating

[efences]

Hi Guys,

I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.

Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?

Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.

I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info

Please help.

Thank you in advance.

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

[ummmm]

Mark...in my case she didn't know I existed.

[Sqad]

Mark.....he texts her....her mobile is on buzz or silent..............no problems.

This is a windup, but even if it isnt..........she is having an affair.

[efences]

Thanks for all your advice. I'm gonna have to ask her.

[Bbbananas]

What are you lol'ling about sqad?!!!! ;-)

Yup efences - she's having an affair. Either that, or she's definitely not.

[efences]

Sqad, this is no wind up.

[ummmm]

Sqad - why do you always think that threads like this are a wind up?

[Ankou]

even if it is a wind up, i think its quite insensitive to find humour in such things.

it really is quite low.

[milly143]

I agree with Pinki. You need to look at the bigger picture. Has anything else changed? Is she going out more?

[Sqad]

ummmm....because they usually are and the outcome of our advice is rarely seen.

[grasscarp]

I cant believe that a) you do the washing and b) take paper out of pockets. I do the washing but have never managed to remember to take stuff out of pockets. There are often messy white bits everywhere after the wash .......

[milly143]

I don't think it's a wind up either.

[efences]

In the last month she has had a bit of an attitude change. Things seem to annoy her (not just me) easier.

I know the signs are there to confirm it, but wondered if there was anyway of finding out if that number has been used.,

But like i said, i'm going to have to confront her.

[NazNomad]

Re: Sqad's suspicions - http://www.theanswerb...s/Question848659.html - "Hi guys i'm a newbie so be gentle!" ... why would you feel it necessary to state that?

Pattern forming here?

[MarkRae]

Have you tried Googling the number...?

[ummmm]

No Sqad...they usually aren't. You just remember the ones that are.

efences - any change in the bedroom department?

[efences]

Sqad,

Why would i waste my time? I asked a question to seek advice. Thats all. I actually do have a life and trolling Answerbank isnt at the top of my list

[jake-the-peg]

Text the number:

"Sorry had to get new mobile number: You OK?"

[ummmm]

Naz, he could have been reading before he joined. He might have even read some of CB..

[efences]

I dont really come on here, but because this is only my 2nd post, i'm a wind up?

Christ...