Love online

[Teddy_boy]

I have joined many online sites to find a partner. But personally i find that at 51 years old and after a divorce a few years back , its very diffficult to form a lasting relationship. Many of the women i have met are so busy in their own working life that they are only looking for casual encounters. Call me old fashioned but i set out looking for love and as of yet after 6 months im no nearer. Yes i have been intimate with women.And found it very enjoyable. But im starting to think that either the women dont want to commit and then change their current lifestyle , or perhaps im only good enough for some casual meeting and im not worthy of a commitment from them. Im starting to feel cheap.When im alone i cry , and i know man shouldnt do this, but i feel like my life is empty.I have nothing and im just living day to day.Its like life is passing me by.I feel unwanted and surplus.People i work with think im a happy jolly guy , but really im very sad.Sometimes i go to bed and think that if i never wakened then noone would even know.Or care. When all i really want is a nice woman to spend my time with and grow old with.But i just cant find them.Am i just undesireable ?

[JonnyBoy12]

I would strongly recommed Speed Dating for you, and anyone who is single. I have done it a few times, but not found the right person for me, but apparently some of the females were interested in me. Everyone there is there through choice, and by the end of 5 minutes you know if you want to see that person again. They are all Single and Looking there, and nobody is there under false pretences.

See the following link below;

www.whenthemusicstops.com

Do any other ABers know of any Speed Dating companies in the West Midlands area?

[Dris]

lol Vibes at suggesting dogs being good for picking up people -theyre a good excuse so im led to believe ;)

Teddy_boy - great advice there -I was single for years as i didnt want to re-commit and just when I least expected it I met my 2nd husband and we have managed to weather 13 years together :)

[DEN53]

I have been chatted up many times in supermarkets, but I always seem to attract the nutters. (:0 (

[murraymints]

i am just popping out to ASDA to do some "shopping" I will be the one with the white carnation between my teeth standing by the cucumbers !!!

[Dris]

Hope Teddy hasnt tried the supermarket dating thing Den lol :)))

[redman41]

LOL DEN53 ! Squad take note !!! lol
Hope you are well DEN ? Happy New Year btw !!

[DEN53]

Murray - I will be the lady walking the other way................

[Sqad]

teddy

<<<Im starting to feel cheap.<<<

Then up your price.

[DEN53]

Hiya Redman - have'nt seen you about and was getting worried, but I emailed Rowan and she said you were fine.

[redman41]

Think murraymints will have Cucumber down his pants !! lol

[Sqad]

redman....steady on....even "nutters" need a bit of..........."hanky panky"

[redman41]

Hello Squad, hope your well ! Happy New Year and keep shopping !!! ha ha

[rowanwitch]

that will set the alarms off....
Seriously though....its being aware ..... but asking someone how you cook cornflakes might not do it....

Sqad...can just see you...'are mussels as good as oysters....no i don't know either shall we go back to your place and find out....'

[Sqad]

redman....same to you and rowan.

I have given up shopping long ago.......I choose on-line and get it delivered;-)

[tamborine]

you're young for a teddyboy....I'd expect real ted's to be 70+?

[DEN53]

rowan - all Sqad would offer is a fish and chip supper and on pensioners day he would get a discount.............he knows have to treat a girl. (:0 (