Love online

[Teddy_boy]

I have joined many online sites to find a partner. But personally i find that at 51 years old and after a divorce a few years back , its very diffficult to form a lasting relationship. Many of the women i have met are so busy in their own working life that they are only looking for casual encounters. Call me old fashioned but i set out looking for love and as of yet after 6 months im no nearer. Yes i have been intimate with women.And found it very enjoyable. But im starting to think that either the women dont want to commit and then change their current lifestyle , or perhaps im only good enough for some casual meeting and im not worthy of a commitment from them. Im starting to feel cheap.When im alone i cry , and i know man shouldnt do this, but i feel like my life is empty.I have nothing and im just living day to day.Its like life is passing me by.I feel unwanted and surplus.People i work with think im a happy jolly guy , but really im very sad.Sometimes i go to bed and think that if i never wakened then noone would even know.Or care. When all i really want is a nice woman to spend my time with and grow old with.But i just cant find them.Am i just undesireable ?

[Teddy_boy]

Sara the lifestyle i meant was the one they have become accustomed to.Where they can have their cake and eat it , some might say .

[arwyn]

Saturday nights Teddy-boy saturday nights

[boxtops]

whatever you do teddy-boy - good luck - I can vouch for the fact that you can bump into the right person at most unexpected places. I met my husband when neither of us was even looking for a relationship - as others have said, being relaxed about it, and not looking too hard, often pays dividends!

[naomi24]

^^ Ditto.

[Teddy_boy]

So if i linger in the bakery department of tescos on saturday night , i may get some crumpet?or even the odd tart or two?Perhaps even a french fancy?

[sara3]

or a slap ;o)

[arwyn]

Teddy-boy I laught at you'r last post, I never thought of it like that ha ha. Maybe it's best to go to a pub and not to be thinking to much about french fancys ha ha.

[Teddy_boy]

Sara wants to slap me!And reading her posts she sounded ratehr nice. Hey ho i suppose i will have to live and learn.Arwyn you may be right , then again a drunk man isnt a pretty sight but a drunk woman , though ever more common these days , is even less appealing than the thought of a slap from sara.

[arwyn]

Have you took any of the advice you got on here? was it helpfull? tell me to mind my own business if you want. Its just I'm really nebby

[Teddy_boy]

What does nebby mean? I did go to tescos and im planning a staurday night shop. I have looked in the mirror and have decided that im happyish with how i am and would like to met someone with a similar opinion , rather than tart myself up to ensnare the lady. Take me for better or worse rather than give the lady a false impression.

[arwyn]

nebby means nosey, I never ment for you to change your self, sorry if it came across that way, all I ment was a hair cut of some thing. you are wright she should take you for who you are.. good look on the night out

[Teddy_boy]

Well i like to go fishing so i understand the necessity of patience when trying to get the perfect catch.

[VHG]

Try the Saga web site if you have not done so already

[Teddy_boy]

Im not ready for the saggy sagas quite yet.

[albaqwerty]

and at 51 you're not ready for the saggy saga ? What would you like, a sweet 26 year old t do? Grow up and join a club which interests you and don't show how keen you are :D

[Teddy_boy]

Pinklady what age range are you in ? Albawqerty whhat about your age range ?

[albaqwerty]

I don't need to look for an age range thanks. Am in one and so is my other half.

Hi Pink x

[Teddy_boy]

I wasnt propositioning you albaqwerty i was merely asking. Trying to see what your opinion is on ages ectcetera?

[boxtops]

teddy-boy, age doesn't matter. You will know when you meet the right lady.