I have an annoying interffering mother in law whos got me at the end of my tether, My hubby is not prepared to move out but she's making my life hell. What can I do???
Your husband needs to get a backbone. When someone marries, they 'leave' their family and make a new life with their husband/wife. She may reject you, or she may not but it is her choice and not a tool for emotional blackmail.
At the end of the day, her son can't be that important to her if she would cut him off without a care.
I am sorry for you, I have a son married and try to remember he now has another woman in his life who must take first place as his wife. Try not to argue over her too much as she wil enjoy this, let her see how happy the two of you are together. Don`t say too much against her to your husband, she is his Mother, after all.
Other than that, it may have to be time for strong words or actions Good Luck
i had a similar situation, some women use their familys loyalty to get what they want and to frankly bully non family members but trust me this will get to you in the end and you will lose respect for your husband. Also what will happen when you have a baby?Nothing you do will ever be right/good enough for her and it WILL spoil things between you and your husband. Whatever you do just find a way to get away from her before the damage is done.