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Stuck as to what is best thing to do
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Without going into all details ect as we would be here for quite a long time, I have begun over about the past 3 or so months, to slowly stop seeing my Dad and thinking as to why, there is no reason. I have not spoke/seen in about 2 weeks currently and have just been texte'd saying he's just out of hosp, I have no idea as to why but dont feel ready to contact or visit him but I dont know why. I do care / love him beyond any amount of words but just feel as if that it is not right if i rung him as i know i would no doubt have little to say which is another thing stopping me
HELP please!
HELP please!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Actually, it may be your love for him that stops you going.
Don't be so hard on yourself. It's very hard watching someone you thought was strong and unstoppable being weak and frail. You prefer to think of him the way he was, not the way he is.
Problem being is you stop seeing him because you don't want to ruin your memories, then he dies and your left wishing you had said goodbye.
Don't be so hard on yourself. It's very hard watching someone you thought was strong and unstoppable being weak and frail. You prefer to think of him the way he was, not the way he is.
Problem being is you stop seeing him because you don't want to ruin your memories, then he dies and your left wishing you had said goodbye.