Mums, Dads, & Grandparents.........

[trt]

Your opinions please.

I have been having a friendly banter with my daughter 40yrs (modern mum) who has been a Health Visitor for 15, with my 4yr old grandson.

Last week they came over to my place, and she had painted her nails with a new red shade, and he had blue nails.
I laughed and said, are you trying to make him gay, and she said he asked her because he watched her doing hers.

We got into a discussion, and she said I was old fashioned, (she calls me grumps by the way), and that there was no harm, and children have to experiment, as he would probably do it himself if she wasn't looking.

I didn't agree, and she said, ask you friends on A/B, and see what they say, so I have!

I think I am right, what do you think?

[murraymints]

hee hee chiki..I am a ladeeee ! agree neither wrong nor right and I would not criticise others doing so ..I, personally speaking , would not be comfortable seeing it on a child of mine at such a young age !

[chikispirit]

Oops! Sorry ladeeeee. My children never wore nail varnish and young ladies who grow their nails too long are told to get them trimmed, if that helps.
I don't have a problem with earrings any age group. That's a matter of culture.

Children grow up too soon these days, peer pressure, media pressure etc etc

If you're not happy about it you are right to say how you feel or be given the opportunity to say how you feel about it then move on with your life.