My son is making me stressed

[puddicat]

My lad is 25 and a great lad at times,but when i split with his dad when he was eleven he seems off and on to have always been in bother in some shape or form, he is up in court next week for a assault charge, i have just been served papers to go in and be a witness for him, dont know what i am going to get asked!!!, He has got a job a temperary contract,what worries me is that they wont keep him on even though he is needed, as he will have to take time off next week to go to court, and he has already taken time off after breaking his jaw!i struggle as it is moneywise and was relying on his dig money, i dont want to have a row with him but i have had enough!!!!

[puddicat]

well ther you go daffy whats this site about!!!

[puddicat]

Lets close it now had everyones input thanks!!!

[daffy654]

You obviously don't want advice though because you have ignored what most of us have said. You do whatever you feel is right and maybe your son will turn out ok in the end.As I said before,I wish you luck.

[puddicat]

Thanks and goodnight

[mizi]

nite puddicat

[puddicat]

nite mitzi

[vway]

puddicat your son sounds just like my younger brother,our parents split when he was about the same age and he like your son was in and out of trouble for years, but there is hope - my mother stuck by him which was not easy for her.

My brother now say's that he was a grade one spoilt brat, using the divorce as an excuse, but he now realises that he did know right from wrong but chose do as he pleased!

You are not responsible for your son's behaviour and try to make him aware that what ever you do in life has consequence's, if you can stand by him - and as with my brother he will turn out to be a hard working loving son.

He must have some great qualities try to get him to focus on his good point's ,my brother always felt he was good for nothing but 'he has a good job and a family that stood by him even when he drove us mad which has paid dividends.


Good luck to both you and your son.