Am I Being Selfish

[Anomybohe2]

So going home for Christmas and somethings bugging me may seem small to some but hopefully most can help ease my mind out of two spare room one having an en-suite and just slightly bigger than the one without who would you give what room too:

Single mum who currently co sleeps with her baby who has ulcerative colitis, internal and external hemoroids and a fistula so often bleeds heavily and has periods of discomfort and problems with her bowels (from preganmact and childbirth)

And a married couple with a baby

[Anomybohe2]

Knowing my problems my sister has convinced and my mum has agreed to give them the room with en-suite as there are two of them which I find very unthoughtful but not surprising as my sister will always do what’s best for her despite other my feelings are most high yet by my mother agreeing to it I think as she’s seen me suffer with these problems for a long time now I feel she should of said that this yr my needs come before the size (as they don’t have an en-suite at home and there room at home is no bigger really) and the simples fact of there being two of them which has always been the reason yrs past and I hve been fine with of course