He’s Broken Her Heart.

[chrissa1]

My beautiful daughter who has two year old twins has just found out that her husband of 6 years has been cheating on her with another woman. She has kicked him out of their home and is heartbroken.

The girls are missing their Daddy and I can’t believe that he has done this to her and his beautiful little girls.

I’m so angry and sad.

[Spicerack]

What are you thanking S. Dave for? Because he gave me some abuse?
Thank whatever he's drinking tonight.
Wouldn't happen in 'real life'.

[Atheist]

And the husband had been running (really running, or is that meant to be a euphemism?) with the other woman during November. Not much information to go on. And it's none of our business anyway.

[chrissa1]

You’re so right sunny-dave. She believed him in September and has been proved wrong to believe him. How can she trust him again?

[Atheist]

chrissa, I know so little about this and about your family that I shouldn't try to offer an opinion. I hope that you and your loved ones find a way through this.

[jourdain2]

Once trust is broken, that's it. My daughter, 3 years ago now, rang me (I already knew there was something wrong) and I told her to look in his pockets. Sure enough,, hotel bills etc., etc.. It was horrible and I know how you must be feeling. I couldn't believe what he was doing to his children. (9 & 7)
We are still working at them. I am now down to plain angry. I don't know how I can help, but if you can think of some way then I am there for you. It's hard, we're surviving. You will all survive - but it is so very sad.

[chrissa1]

Her husband runs a gym and she is a member of the gym too. They have been running together and then she found out that they have been exchanging “sexual” photographs.

[gness]

All you can do just now, Chrissa is be there for her and the twins. I know from your previous posts how much that will mean to her...x

[chrissa1]

So sorry, jourdain2.

[chrissa1]

We are both taking the girls to gymnastics tomorrow morning.

[anneasquith]

Chrissa, I’m so sorry this is happening to your family.
Isn’t it great you moved to be nearer your daughter and the girls. I know you have gone through a lot.
Tell your daughter not to make any rash decisions. Who does that to the mother of his children ?

[chrissa1]

Exactly, anneasquith.

[Sqad]

It happens, it's quite a common situation actually.
She is heart broken, the kids are upset, but all this wil be swept away by the waves of time.
Pain, anguish and hand wringing are a normal response to such events and they just need to be ridden out.......they will go.

Kids? they are more resilient than you give them credit for.

You only decision is whether to leave him or not and that I'm afraid AB cannot answer.

It will all come out in the wash.

[anneasquith]

Great post to chrissa sqad .

[david small]

I knew a chap who had everything. Beautiful wife, two lovely kids, great house, own successful business. He lost the lot over a tawdry affair with some slapper he’d met. He begged forgiveness from his tatty rented bedsit. It was not forthcoming. Very good looking guy as well.

[Patsy33]

So very sorry to read this Chrissa. Soul crushing to say the least.
Wishing you all strength at this difficult time.

[albaqwerty]

Am sorry to read this.
I'd suggest they need to have a heart-to-heart in a neutral setting and that neither of them use the children as weapons.
Your poor daughter, her world has just been smashed to pieces.

[Ric.ror]

I’m in a (very) vaguely similar situation
It’s important for you to support your daughter AND try to still be civil to that lying bar steward. Whatever happens going forward he is probably going to be in the girls lives and my favourite saying ‘least said soonest mended’ is most appropriate in these situations.

[burlyshirley]

When his fling is over (and it will be I'm sure), he will probably go running back with his tail between his legs ! Me, I would never forgive him, the trust would be gone, but she may do so for the kiddies sakes and they will still need him in their lives. I hope it can be resolved amicably, but I am 1000% on your daughter's side.

[burlyshirley]

^ sorry meant 100% ..

[Ilovecats22]

Im so sorry this has happened. Sadly, the entire relationship can never be the same. I wonder what he was like before marrying her? His past?
She needs to speak to a lawyer. Give him what he wants, his other woman. If he lied to your daughter in the first place stating that nothing was happening at all, he will lie to her again. She needs to divorce him.