Is This Guy Harrasing Me?

[abbeylee90]

I appreciate he being kind giving me lifts and going for lunch but he does my head in grabbing me to do it all the time as I'm leaving where I know him from I got things I need to do myself feel like he obsessed with me

[naomi24]

He’s not harassing you if you’re accepting lifts and willingly going to lunch with him. If you don’t like going with him say no.

[abbeylee90]

It's not that I don't like it just not all the time

[ToraToraTora]

From your posts on here you sound like and absolute nightmare, the guy deserves a medal.

[naomi24]

Tell him that then.

[Peter Pedant]

listen to Naomi
she is an expert on this !

[abbeylee90]

He does deserve a medal I feel bad but I need my space.

[barry1010]

Next time just tell him him you are very busy with your new job but would love to see him on (a day you have nothing else on) for a drink/lunch/whatever.

Put the meetings on your terms

[naomi24]

^he’s right… for once.

[Barsel]

// grabbing me to do it all the time as I'm leaving//
Grabbing you to do what?
//where I know him from I got things I need to do myself//
I don't understand what you mean.

[naomi24]

^That to 15.42.

[naomi24]

Barry, if he’s giving her lifts and going to lunch with her I assume they work at the same place. Do you abbey?

[barry1010]

Is this the lonely bloke that is older than your dad?

[Hazlinny]

Can't say more than Naomi - is he a work colleague?
Having said that, you are always looking for that "special someone" -could he fit the bill?

[Peter Pedant]

Barry, if he’s giving her lifts and going to lunch with her I ASSUME they work at the same place.

no you conclude, no you conclude....
chrissakes

[naomi24]

No, I don’t conclude - I assume. There is a difference.

[barry1010]

If he is a colleague same as my previous answer but tell him you are too busy with your new boyfriend

[naomi24]

Abbey shouldn’t lie to him. That could create complications. She should be honest and say she’d like a bit more space.

[Barsel]

Me @ 15.47. Can anyone else explain what Abey means?

[Floko]

@barsel. until Abbey answers to queries, I take it that the fellow wants to give her lifts from wherever they know each other i,e. dogwalkimg or work ?

[bobbinwales]

As I'm leaving where I know him from.
She means that she sees him at somewhere she goes ( Dogwalking?) and it's when she's leaving there