Would It Be Weird If I Went Out With 6 Men?

[abbeylee90]

One of my male friends is going put tomorrow with 5 male friends and invited me don't know if it abit strange 

[TheWinner]

20.13  please let me in on it...

[ynnafymmi]

abbey seems really enigmatic,Winner,i thought i would be enigmatic back.As i said,forget it.

[TheWinner]

Ok, I've forgotten it.

[douglas9401]

Older members may remember Forum magazine, especially the letters page. 😏

[Floko]

Abbey, you have not answered relevant questions: is the male friend the 60+ dog walker; how old are his male friends; Are you really considering  going?  You (sensibly) cancelled the last pub visit when it was just the dog walker and his male friend 

[Hazlinny]

Abbey/  You always seem to mention your mother in your posts -what does father have to say to you about the problems you have?  

[douglas9401]

"Ask your mum" I expect.

[abbeylee90]

Yes it is man from dog walking and I haven't had chance to come on here all the time.

[newmodarmy]

Yes, we realise you're not at work now so have less time to post

[Hazlinny]

Gotta watch those 60 year olds Abbey - they might spike your drinks.   Anyway, thought you had put kennel man on the back boiler?

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey - are you now quite happy to go out with the old, creepy obsessed guy and his cronies? What dispelled your earlier unease? 

[newmodarmy]

It could be that he's just showing you off to impress his mates.  If he's creepy and you don't have any idea what his mates are like, what possible reason could there be for thinking of going?

[abbeylee90]

I don't think I'm going.

I don't just go on here when using my phone.

[jourdain2]

Abbey - what is bothering me is why you say your Mum is not allowed visitors after a knee operation?  I simply don't believe that.  She'll be home in just a few days and she'll need looking after for a while.  That is your job.

If you will listen and take advice (I'm beginning to doubt it) :-

No, you do not go to the pub with 6 men, most of whom are strangers.

Yes, you stop telling lies to your mum.

Yes, you give up all social life whilst your mum needs help at home after her op. - and she will need help for at least a week.  Someone will need to do thecooking, shopping etc. and that someone is you.

Somehow you fit in working in-between, as I'm willing to  bet most of us have had to do.  Life is NOT easy  (sorry to have  to tell you, but I think you are beginning to understand) nor is it particularly nice. You need to thoroughly understand that you have to work hard to survive.

There, I've said it.  Most of thishas already been told to you.  Please believe us, we are giving our time and experience to you.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, why did you even think about going? Do you previously ask for advice and then forget, or decide to ignore it? 

[barry1010]

Now I know it's the older man that you have been trying to avoid, absolutely do not go.

[Barsel]

Abbey, I've just had a full knee replacement and I had visitors from day 1.

It's coming up to 6 weeks since I had my op and I'm still relying on other people for help.

 

[Canary42]

He's obviously going to show you off as a trophy - do not go under any circumstances - very creepy.

[scorpiojo]

Again, you said previously 

 

//I appreciate he being kind giving me lifts and going for lunch but he does my head in grabbing me to do it all the time as I'm leaving where I know him from I got things I need to do myself feel like he obsessed with me//

so why even consider going out with him and his friend...or friends??