When I first found out I was pregnant, I had a load of mixed feelings - we desperately wanted our baby, but I was worried about whether it would affect our relationship which, up till then, had been wonderful. No worries, though - once we saw the first scan, we were both absolutely besotted with the little one (who's now 18, by the way). Yes, of course you'll be wondering how it's going to affect your lives - and it will, tremendously, but once you've got them, you'll never want to be without them!! Good luck, K xx