What Do I Do If I Get This Job?

[abbeylee90]

I got an interview tomorrow in a new shop opening which is meant to be on 9th. I need to give 2 weeks notice to selco so what do I say?

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey - but why are you then making such a big thing about whether to take the job or not? Yes, there may be aspects to it that you don't like - but you haven't been swamped with opportunities.

[melv16]

A fully paid up member of the snowflake generation 👏 🙄 

[newmodarmy]

Abbey- you need professional help from a  counsellor and maybe pyscolotherapist as you can't make decisions on the smallest things (what to have for tea, what to wear, whether to contact a 'friend') and certainly have not been able to find a job that you make  a success of. You need to talk to your parents NOW. They need to get you the help you need. Maybe your GP or social services or the DWP can point you in the right direction too.

[abbeylee90]

I don't think it worthit now would have to book a sesh and pay 

[abbeylee90]

Weather to turn to family or a friend first

[DDIL]

I don't think you would have to pay for it if you have as many issues as you say you have and the GP is aware.

[abbeylee90]

Probably to late now.

[bednobs]

Too late for what? I believe nma was probably talking in general rather than about this particular job

[bednobs]

Or do you mean too late because you are (supposedly) adult and beyond changing?

[abbeylee90]

Before deciding on this job.

[newmodarmy]

It'll take weeks to  sort out psychotherapy support but you can start talking to family NOW about this job and then about the help you need immediately and on an ongoing basis from them and probably from professionals ASAP.

[abbeylee90]

I will but scared what they will say and wasn't going to tell my mum until I started as I don't want others from family knowing until I'm sure.

[Madgeorge]

I am sure these posts are from a wind up merchant who is having a good chuckle at our expense......in which case help is needed.

Or....these posts are genuine in which case such pathetic indecision and juvenile prattling requires help too.

Stop "helping" as she obviously takes no notice whatsoever and is merely attention seeking.

[newmodarmy]

Just do it. She'd be horrified to know you're frightened to tell her the truth about your serious issues but happy to talk to ( but maybe not listen to) strangers on this site. strangers

[abbeylee90]

I know this is irrelevant bur I'm ashamed of my epilepsy aswell.

[DDIL]

I'm sorry but I just don't believe that.

[abbeylee90]

What don't you believe?

[DDIL]

Because I don't.

You have never shown a shameful bone in your body!

[Madgeorge]

Another attempt at a windup?

Irrelevant, as you say.

[CrapatCryptics2]

The first thing you need to do at your new employer is start thinking for yourself.