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What Do I Do About This Job?
Sorry I know I got a thread about this but won't let me reply anymore. At the moment I'm really in doubt got loads of pros and cons
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Sorry, I got called away (visitors) but this is in reply to Naomi @15.47.
Naomi, I know you believe you are helping her as do a lot of other Abers, but we are not the people who can help Abbey and I'm sure you know that.
If Abbey was going to accept someone's advice, her threads would not go on for as long as they do. We know that if Abbey is genuine, then she needs professional help which she seems unwilling to get.
Why do some people keep mentioning her parents? We know very little about them except Abbey seems unable to confide in them so we can only guess she doesn't have a good relationship with them.
If you and others like you are happy to keep banging your heads on a wall, then go ahead, and keep offering advice that deep down you know is a complete waste of your time.
It's a shame though that you are possibly making some Abers uneasy shall we say in the way you feel the need to protect her, but I would hate to see regular posters leaving this site because of it. I don't post a lot on here anymore for several reasons, and this is one of them.
It's very difficult to know what to do about Abbey, knowing she has been authenticated. In spite of repeated efforts by the compassionate Ab members, our efforts appear to fall on stoney ground. Should we wash our hands of her, and leave her to learn from bitter experience (as so many of us surely do). I don't know the answer.
//Why do some people keep mentioning her parents? We know very little about them except Abbey seems unable to confide in them so we can only guess she doesn't have a good relationship with them.//
Well she's still living at home in her 30s and gets alify to work from her mum, and her mum must be happy to provide board and lodgings despite absence lack of income to pay her way, so I don't see the relationship being too bad.