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Well, I've come back down to Earth. D is actually fighting back properly now - result is abusive phone calls. Last Fri. there was 1 at 7 a.m. using foul language(calling her f..ing things). letter has gone forbidding him to use phone for contact and to use email or text for contact. All these being monitored and saved.
This came about because she refused to supinely sign documents regarding house sale. Her solicitor was checking them today to ensure that they are correct.
On the minus side - she has consulted another solicitor who told her the same, that she would be on shaky ground even with the new legislation and it wasn't worth the extra stress! So she had best stick with her solicitor. I find this hard to believe, but Exmouth is a small town and all solicitors know each other.... I have, obviously, given our p.o.v. (strongly).
Healthwise, her Dr. took one look at her last week and has signed her off work indefinitely. She has been having panic and anxiety attacks and palpitations, which resulted in an ECG......all clear, pure stress. Legally it still does not seem to cut ice.
To me, it is clear-cut, but I don't know where to go now. We are digging in for a long haul. Mr J2 now says that he only has one son (the younger, who has been a brick), that the hurt and shock have passed and that A is a stranger to him. This is very sad - to live your long life and then have this happen is hard.
Well, we keep going. I would love a word with A, speech is rehearsed...