Reading through all this sc, I think the reason your age was asked, is because you DO sound terribly young. If you're a qualified accountant, then you'd have to be older than you appear on here, as I have a friend in the trade, and know how many years he spent studying before securing his job. Most intelligent folk facing this dilemma'd know exactly what to expect, as they'd go into a police station and ask, or seek advice from their solicitor - in which case they wouldn't need to post on here. if things are as you say, then again, I sincerely hope your bf's solicitor is a good one.