is this legal porn ? please help

[lillybeth]

im sorry in advance if im wrong in doing this but i really need help in understanding if what i have found my partner looking at is illegal or not.?
fist it was just kinky all teens doing this and that, schoolgirls, babysitters most with older men or couples but some just teens with teens.
then ive found dad,F***s step daughter, dad, with son and daughter and pretending to force her. others have included the title of family sex and mother and daughter being you know what in public. i hate that i have seen some of this horror and feel it is completly wrong but is it illegal from what i can make out everyone is not under age although some are very close to not being. it is very hardcore stuff he has also viewed gay stuff to mention a few. please help me if you can. im scared to speak out to my DV counseller in case it is with out me knowing first. thank you.

[lillybeth]

that i think i can do, thank you i will try and speak to them while my youngest is in bed, ummm hope your arm is starting to feel a little better bless ya.

[CAJ1]

Well done, you are doing really well, we'll get there :)

[lillybeth]

thank you, havnt had your email yet but pc playing up so ill keep checking x

[chelle7272]

Well done lillybeth, I found the domestic abuse officers very helpful and understanding. Good luck xx

[bobjugs12]

lilly, it was me who said about london. The reason I was aksing was if you needed a bit of male help if you decided to leave, and a lift for you and your girls, i would have been more than willing (even if all you wanted was for me to wait in the car unless things got heated)

[lillybeth]

thank you thats very kind. its nice to know there are some decent people out there.

[ummmm]

Scorpio....They've been using those descriptions for years. Not once has me or BF come across anything dodgy. If we did....we would report it straight away.

Thanks Lilly....another 5 days to go. It doesn't feel too bad though. I've done worse to myself...lol.

Glad you're feeling stronger xx

[CAJ1]

No problem, I'll be about all day so can reply straight away when you do get it x

Bobjugs, it is lovely to see that there are people about who are willing to help in the way you have offered to help lillybeth. Its a pity you don't live nearer! However, I know from experience if I had left my ex and a man had helped me he would immediatley have jumped to the conclusion that I was sleeping with that man! Not that he would have had a say in it after all he had done to me but it may have made things harder for me.

[ummmm]

I think you would have to that way inclined though.....

[lillybeth]

barely legal was another one he was looking at, the thing that gets me more is my mum uses this computer and sometimes its straight in your view the pages he has looked at when you type on the address bar. i know on his computer at home he has a seceret file where he has downloaded videos and pics the content i have no clue and i dont want to. i have tried to see if he has done the same on here but imi not really a wizz with things like that

[Nosha123]

Just reading this post now.. My Good God woman.... We are all here willing you to be strong now!!! and sending hugs!!
You have been brave up to now! You MUST continue... and soon!!
Make the move while you have the guts to still do it - He's a nasty violent bully.. and he will only continue his behaviour until you have no fight left in you.
You must make the move now to start your life without him - before he controls you even more and you are too weak to leave!
Do it for yourself...
Do it for your kids!
Give them and you a better life - free from violence and abuse!
You have the power to change this..... and you CAN!!!

[lillybeth]

thank you for the link of of womens aid i have spoken to them and have a worker but after opening up to one i have now got another one and its taking time to trust her and feel right with her. i am trying though and giving her a go. i am open to trying anything to try and being this to a better place. but not quite ready for the cahos that would be caused if everyone was to know.

[Nosha123]

She works for womens aid sweetheart.. she does this job every day.. Nothing you tell her will surprise her - she is there to help you!
Reach out for help and she will give it to you!!!
You have the power to change this... you know you can!

[CAJ1]

Did you get my email yet? I re-sent it just in case there was a problem x

[lillybeth]

my email wont load which is typical.
ive just got of the phone to the police, i wasnt able to say much but she was really nice and is going to ring me again tomorrow unless i want to speak more today, she also said i could go in to speak to her face to face

[chelle7272]

That's great lillybeth, I know it's not easy to tell strangers things like this, but you'll get there.x