//The papers say Terry called Ferdinand a "f***in black c**t". //
^^ That's abusive, but not because it contains the word 'black'. Fat people are fat, tall people are tall, white people are white, and black people are black. They are facts of life that cannot be denied. By taking offence, you are in effect denying the charge, but why? There's nothing wrong in being black, or white, or fat, or tall, so why take offence if someone describes you as such? I actually think black people are their own worst enemies because by continuing to cry 'racist' at every turn, they give the abuser exactly what he seeks, and so exacerbate the problem. Be offended by real abuse, but not by a factual description. Stand proud and say 'yes, I am black, but I'm not a "f***in c**t". Where is your racist abuser then? You have risen above him - and his only achievement is to confirm to the world that he is a complete and utter numb-brain.