It seems rather sinister to me that private mail is intercepted and read by a third party. Does this happen for all 11 year olds mail? Was this girl singled out? What were the teachers hoping to find? It seems grossly over the top if it was to catch children eating sweets. I also believe banning an 11 year old from eating chocolate on holiday is extremely strict. If...
I was a teacher and I know the problems of looking after kids and irresponsible , ignorant parents. Talking of which what is your expertise of looking after kids.?
Factor, Sounds like it. Going to the papers with it seems a bit of an over-reaction though. Still, if the girl's 11, she'll probably be moving to a new school in September, so at least there won't be on-going problems.
Perhaps we are hearing one side of a story but the fact we're arguing on here about a bar of chocolate doesn't say much for the common sense of the teacher.
Surely this could have been dealt with in a better way.
JJ - they were probably also told not to take any drinks in glass bottles. I expect you would be ok with it if your child was on the trip and a bottle got broken and your child badly cut themselves. If you entrust your children to go on a school trip where the teachers act in loco parentis then you have to accept the rules too.
I wonder how much The Sun paid for the story ? A lot more than the £180 that it cost the Mum I bet.
Reading between the lines the Mum decided to come and collect her and the 'letter' was a classwork exercise not an actual personal letter . i will take a very heavy bet that the Mum now has a nice fee from the Sun. They offer several £1,000s for such stories.
Just jude , The Sun journalists write the article and tell the Mother what they want her to say. That is how Fleet Street works very very little is ever reported exactly as the original subject told it.
Let's face it, we'll never agree on here. There are those of us who have taken school trips and have dealt with a roomful of gobby teenagers, then there are those who haven't, but know all the answers!
Sounds to me like yet another Andy Warhol moment, well done that concerned Mother, your 15 minutes are up I think. No doubt when your child turns round to give you a mouthful of lip in a couple of years time, you'll be back, blaming the schools for not teaching manners.
She comes across to me as a mum who thinks her child can do no wrong - and there are plenty of those around. Since the child will probably be leaving next week, maybe the mother thought she'd put the boot in by going to the newspapers.
when I was at boarding school, our letters home were always read by the teachers - I guess nothing's changed there - they didn't want us saying anything negative.
This seems to be a parent kicking off about the child breaking the rules - doesn't seem unreasonable to me, but making her go home is extreme.
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