hey I have made up a saying that no one had heard before and will make me famous !
he who pays the piper calls the tune....
The idea has been around a bit
and was surprisingly MORE relevant and common when the EU was smaller and therefore Germany's contribution was relatively larger.
Froggies started it after the Treaty of Rome 1957
but as Churchill ( not a great supporter of the Common Market ) said
Jaw jaw is better than war war !