Talbot - //Lots of super intelligent posters on-line today, I would like to thank you all for explaining what a paedophile is. //
A definition is not a matter of intelligence - which is variable - it's a matter of fact - which is not.
//I feel sure you would still think anyone who had sexual relations with your 13 year old child was not a paedophile, even if some ignorant (should I add bigoted there too?) people were accusing him/her of being a paedophile. //
No I wouldn't - because someone having relations with a pre-pubescent child is a paedophile.
If I saw a zebra, I wouldn't think it was a horse.
Things - and indeed people - are what they are.