// Jim, men aren't women. //
Well I guess that settles that then. To hell with all the "third gender" identities in various other cultures, for example.
Y'all ought to give more consideration to the experiences of transpeople, rather than reduce it to some idea that they are cynically hijacking your identity. Given the abuse that such people receive, it would be a strange thing indeed to choose to do so for no reason.
The lack of respect, the lack of empathy, and the utter rejection of any alternative, are sad to see.