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mozz: "Tora, you're acting as if every complaint, whether it be of racism, sexism, homophobia or anything else, is made up. As soon as someone makes such a complaint, your default position seems to be one of disbelief." - no, i'm not saying they are made up I'm saying that they believe they are being singled out because of race and that whites would be let off.
"Are you suggesting that folk who have suffered such abuse just suck it up and keep quiet? " - no, I'm not talking about abuse, I'm talking about application of the rules in the situation concerned.