Road rules1 min ago
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.milkybarkid, in my humble opinion, and ignoring yet another row about this, words come in and out of fashion. These days black is generally preferable to coloured, although this hasn't always been the way as Clanad so rightly and calmly has said.
However, there are the 'cape coloured's' from South Africa, which are a mix between black and indian. As far as I know, it is not offensive to refer to them as coloured.
My friend's mum is black, her dad white, I referred to her 'half caste' for years as when we were kids that is how it was known. It is now more fashionable to say mixed race, so I do, although it took me quite a while to remember.
The long and the short of it is that attitudes matter, not words, it can be very hard to keep up with changing fashions, but as long as you have the right intention, I don't think it's all that important.....
unless you're my grandmother who still uses the term 'darkies'! She's not racist in the slightest, but if you can explain to her that she shouldn't use it, then be my guest.
this "evidence" came from a site not entirely unlike this one, in the sense that ANYONE can submit a definition for a word - so hardly conclusive proof!!
"booyakasha is an african term that means, 'all death to the whites,' that is the literal translation of it, and dont bother contesting it because you are wrong"
It also had an addition immediately after it -
"there is no example for the use of this word"
Sounds like an intelligent and well thought out entry from a mature individual - not!
No one said you made it up, just that you were wrong in rather smugly claiming was a fact.
Yet more garbled, off topic, ranting - yawn...
madein1978 - "They call us honkies"? What's the weather like back there in 1978?
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're playing devil's advocate, because if you're not then you have to be without doubt, the most ill-educated person I've come across in my adult life.
For the record, I'm black, and I accept that there are members of the older generation who genuinely think of that term as offensive. If they have to refer to my racial background (and there are occasions when that's required everyone), then I have no problem with them using the term 'coloured'. It's almost sweetly nostalgic in a way.
If someone my age used the term 'coloured', I would find that strange, as the term has fallen out of general use. It would be like referring to a woman as a 'bird'. You may as well put on flares and listen to ELO - it's that old fashioned.
madein1978
I've just read your post about 'Micks' and 'Jocks' and realise that you're not playing devil's advocate, and that this is really what you think.
If only you could see the look in my face. Don't you realise that it's technically impossible for one white Northern European to be 'racist' to another.
Go on...let's see if you can work it out.
I'll give you 24 hours...and perhaps some crayons and a stack of white paper.
Or should I call that 'honky paper'.