Ok, I definitely don't want or like to be told the answer and purely come on here to discuss my progress often at great length (I don't believe any of my rambled posts asked for any answers, unless you count my previous post).
I have deliberately stopped looking at the EV threads on here as they give too much away, like complete explanation of clues, answers to clues, indication of clues that have manipulation as per the pre-amble, etc etc.
I liked this thread because it never went as far as that, and never gave enough away for anyone to be able to "cheat" there way through........
I have enjoyed the Listener immensely and after all the derision received from colleagues and friends about the "pointlessness" of doing such a complex and lengthy puzzle it was nice to find a group of like-minded people.
However I take pride in my efforts to complete this crossword and will not have it devalued because of my presence in a discussion forum.
As I do not want to get into lengthy debates about this, now or in the future, I think I will stop contributing, and therefore it will not be possible to be accused of cheating others out of their "future career", or indeed of bolstering my own.
Indeed my coaching came from the years of doing standard cryptics, reading the Listener User Guide on the Times website, and just plain giving it a go!
I certainly don't need my principles questioned as would not submit anything if I thought I had "cheated" my way through.
As for being a "lurker" (quite thematic really!), that is up to the individual again to decide.