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New judge, you do make some fair points. I do know she is quite well off, but you are right in that I don’t of course know her full financial situation and I realise she has a business to run.
As you hadn’t been following the thread, you might not have seen that I did later point out that I didn’t trash the house at all, it was two jerks I rented with, but ok I’ll accept what you’re saying is all it takes is one or two tenants to cause a load of damage and she is then faced with the expense of the repair work. I also paid my full share of the rent, it was the other two who did not and as they have now gone AWOL, I’ve had to try and pick up the pieces of this. Again, I’ll accept that | knew any of us could be held liable if payments weren’t made or damage caused. I should also have been much more careful about who I shared a tenancy with.
She just sees this as not her problem and it is just tough on me but she wants paying in full and quickly. I really am trying to pay this, but I accept what you say even at £200 a month she has to wait 20 months to receive her full payments. If a court orders me to continue paying that much through an AOE then I will have to, if my payments are reduced than she will have to accept that, though she would no doubt not be happy to say the least.
Well my original question was whether she is right in pressing me like this and not showing any concern for my financial situation. I do see it from her side as well and I appreciate all views whichever way anyone sees this.