Has Anyone Ever Been In My Situation? If So Did I Get Resolved

[abbeylee90]

So I'm in a really bad place as I'm in an underpaid job that I don't like, no house, no car or partner. I never had enough money either even though I got a good socail life but I just feel like I'm worth nothing 

[Barsel]

Let us know how you get on next week. 

 

[abbeylee90]

Ok I'm trying to think positive 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you have a few things to be positive about! You have got the trial on the checkout next week, you've applied for other jobs, you've got a date lined up for the weekend, and your mum's not taking any money for your keep just now. That's an awful lot better than things were a few weeks ago!

[abbeylee90]

Don't really have money for the date

[Redhelen72]

Don't go then

[scorpiojo]

Cancel it.

[Neveracrossword]

Yes, cancel the date - the last thing you need right now is MORE debt.

[abbeylee90]

Might see if I change to next Friday or Easter Sunday what do I say to him?

[Redhelen72]

I am sorry can we postpone it as it's not convenient 

[Neveracrossword]

Will you have more money then? 

A simple message is worth a try. 'Sorry, something has come up. How about next Friday - or Easter Sunday - instead?'

[abbeylee90]

Yes I get paid 

[Neveracrossword]

Good, Abbey - and if you've cleared off your debt to your mum, you won't have that hanging over you. I expect you'll be happy to be able to pay for your keep too - real life kicks in!

[abbeylee90]

Haven't told anyone yet

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, what does that last post mean? Is it about the date, the job trial, you having no money...?

[Arksided]

How did you decide which pill to take?

[abbeylee90]

Date

[Hazlinny]

You're keeping this one a bit secret, Abbey  ....  perhaps the wise thing to do 😊

[Arksided]

Morptheous... time date unknown.

[abbeylee90]

My date

[johnny.5]

be honest with the date 

tell him you don't get paid until friday or whenever you get paid and you just had to pay an unexpected bill so can you postpone until then please