meglet; I was once invited to a meal in a large Muslim house in Baroda along with a friend who was the the head of a faculty of the university and his wife, (both Hindu and educated in London) and to his, and my dismay, not only did his wife have to eat separately with the other women, they had to eat when we men had finished! they had prepared the food and were effectively eating the left-overs.
A very unenjoyable meal!