naomi; Let me make this clear, I have said all I have to say about the odious S.Fry (which you have even quoted) so he and his man/wife can go to hell for all I care, and you may join him if you feel inclined.
With regards to atheism, it comes in different nuances. What I call stubborn or bovine atheism says "There is no God" with the subheading, "and anyone who thinks otherwise is not as smart as I am" and is subscribed to, from memory on this thread by 4, one of whom is you.
The other kind of atheism I would describe as moderate, or intelligent atheism says, "I do not believe in God", (quite a difference)
Then we have the Agnostics who say " Nothing is, or can be known of God".
Also, we have the Buddhist (and other) view which says, " There may be a God and there may not be a God, but either way, it is you who will have to find your own salvation".
Beyond that, we enter the realm of those who, coming in a myriad of shapes and sizes, say outright, "I believe in God".
I hope that clarifies things for you.