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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I dont go for cocky, aroogant men either. Big turn off. Although i do know a lot of girls that would. The guy being loud and arrogant - usually means they're probably quite well known and a bit of a 'jack-the-lad' type, resulting in their girlfriends also being at the centre of attention a lot of the time (obviously being what she wants!). These relationships never usually last anyway and no doubt he'll probably go out and cheat on her eventually.
Some people work in the following way:
"All my relationships break up. The partners are all quite different. The common factor is me. Ergo, I am bad at relationships.'
What people who think like this don't realise is that you could apply 'the common factor is me' to anyone who has gone out with more than one person! It's almost egotistical to believe that you're special in this respect; that you've been marked out to suffer above all others.
Get over it. Seriously. Stop thinking you're unique in this respect. You really aren't. Do you imagine that all successful hetero relationships are between cocky arrogant men and a.n. other woman? Doesn't that just sound ridiculous when you put it that way?
It also sounds like you need to accept yourself for what you are. You're obviously not terribly confident. Fair enough; accept that about yourself. Don't think you have to pretend to be something you aren't to attract someone because *nothing* will screw a relationship faster than pretence. If they don't like you for who you are, sod 'em. You'd prefer they liked a fake?
Once you learn to like and respect yourself, I suspect you'll find it a lot easier to do the whole relationships thing.
It's a truth that sometimes women have so much baggage of their own that they want a relationship which puts them centre spotlight so a bloke whose a real ****** is what they look for, because you can guarantee that he'll see other women, spend all their money, slap them around a bit and do other things that will be highly emotionally charged a fulfil their need to be the centre of attention. some women actually enjoy being treated appallingly and it says more about them than it does about you.They are the "star" again when to get his own way the bloke has to be sweet with them to "make up" in order to get his own way about something else. They thrive on this negativity even though it causes them great distress and is ultimately destructive.
Naturally, before everyone leaps on me for being a woman hater ( I am not), most women are not like this, but if you have one that is, you're best out of it mate. Move on, feel sorry for her and wait for someone balanced and nice to come along for you because when they do you'll have a great relationship.