Suspicious Behaviour

[gleaveyweave]

Last night, I was driving back wth my kids from parents house and saw my hubby come off the roundabout in front of us and we followed 1 car behind him until the next roundabout about a mile from our house until we got caught behind a tractor and lost him. (he had not seen us). When I got home, he should have been there at least five minutes before but was not in, I assumed he'd popped to tesco. He arrived about 10 minutes later and when I asked if he had been to tesco he said no. I explained that we had seen him and asked where he'd been. He came out first with some weird story about disposing of some stuff from work in litter bins and that I should have seen him parked up near our road where he left his car to walk to the bin. Well I did not believe that at all and told him so. After several variations on this theme, he said ok, the truth is that I went to the video shop to try and get you a copy of Vera Drake (film i've never got round to seeing, but want to) cos I was still feeling guilty about Sunday night. (he had a few to many beers and was a pain in the arse!) I should point out that he had an affair a few years ago and there have been a couple of other issues since. I just don't know what to think? Anyone have an opinion? TIA x

[silverdaler]

hello g.w. - sorry to hear of your demise. living with doubts is truly miserable, especially when there are children involved. Does he ever go out without you ? if he is seeing someone else, when is he finding the opportunity ? Lunchtimes ? Perhaps you could turn up unexpectedly to take him to lunch ?
good luck hun
x

[gleaveyweave]

Thanks silverdaler. Trouble is, he works over an hour away from home and I have never been there and wouldn't have a clue how to get there! He could get up to anything as he is always out and about as part of his job. He works with all women too, which is a worry given his history. He always pops to tesco at night when I take the kids to bed, even if we don't need anthing, he'll find a reason. God, I sound so paranoid don't I?!!
Thanks for taking the time to answer x

[Roughquest]

Mobiles have a lot to answer for dont they? I am sorry you are having this heartache, texts and the like are so easily misconstrued too, and sometimes not, but they are definitely a secret, exciting form of communication. Men are weak honey, always will be where ladies are concerned, i dont know what advice i can give, its a helpless situation and it will go downhill from here unless you both talk, i used to think married people who have affairs were unhappy in their marriage, but i dont know why they do it. Please talk to him darling and get this in the open, it doesnt bode well im afraid, but the very best of luck it goes the way you want it to and all is ok.
RQ xx

[gleaveyweave]

Thanks roughquest, you're a darling x

[babydust]

i run a detective agency and after years of dealing with unfaithful partner cases im afraid it sounds like he is up to no good have you thought about having him investigated?

maybe you should.

Once a liar always a liar

[gleaveyweave]

Assuming this is a serious post, babydust (no offence intended, but there are some strange ones on here!), I have considered that but not sure if I could afford it. What sort of price would I be looking at?

[babydust]

Hi gleaveyweave

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[babydust]

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