have any of you ever had an affair?

[~posy~]

? (i know i'm a nosey cow!!)

[SSquirrel]

Yes but I was young and a bit of a romantic nympho.

[foxydivano1]

In the past yes.... but that was with someone who I had a true connection with, very strong feelings about and who (at the time) felt as though we were sole mates. We were the best of friends we were *that* close, on both a mental and physical level. He knew EVERYTHING about me, and vice versa. We are still friends today (granted not as close, otherwise we'd be together) and there will always be that spark between us, however I know the past will never repeat itself. I did however have to carry the weigh of huge gilt on my shoulders and it really wasnt worth it (in the bigger picture). I *COULD* of hurt a very special person, and realise this only too much now......although the chemistry will always be there between me and the other guy, the situation is too painful to revisit - I have experienced great things and do not regret most of it, just the gilt of cheating.

[T-lo]

mind you i think that men and women have affairs to hurt the person they are with or in my our case we just felt we needed each other that we make each other feel good. don't know but it could feel so right even though it is so wrong.

[Otrere]

Yes. I had an affair with a married man for 7 years whilst in an 11 year relationship with my ex. Nobody every knew. Not his wife or my ex.

Then I found out a couple of months back my husband was having an affair. Its a real s***.

They say what goes around comes around.

[Donna69]

I was the other woman for nearly 5 years. He dumped me and the wife at the same time lol

[T-lo]

you know what i think it is best for our pride women that we dump them instead of getting dumped. i advise these other women who are still in this affair that do end this sooner than waiting for the guy to say, "this is over." it saves a lot of grief and saves your ego what's left of it.
i ended it indirectly. i just stopped connecting with him.actually i wished i said it to his face. it would have given me much pleasure. the nerve, saying he misses me and does care about me. he really didn't. all he cared about is his desires to be fulfilled. truelly disgusting.