I'm Fat And Lonely.

[Vulture35]

I'm fat and lonely. I want to find a loving, kind and sweet girl. Yeah, I'm fat, but that doesn't mean I'm some kind of monster or clumsy person. I work and earn decent money, I love children, I like to cook. Which site can I use?

[AuntPG]

Forget the body image, you are lonely, full stop. I would avoid internet sites that focus on body image over personality. Get yourself out there -find a hobby -yes old-fashioned ideas but they often work. I know someone who tried for years to get a girlfriend. He joined a photography club in the village, even though he's never taken a proper photo in his life, and he met the girl who has now been his wife for three years.

[ToraToraTora]

The best advice I can give is stop looking and love will find you. It's happened to me several times.

[Mozz71]

It's a rarity, but I find myself agreeing with Tora. Sometimes you just find what you need without looking. I will also say to stay away from dating apps. They're full of toxicity, and if you're suffering from a lack of confidence, they'll only make things worse.

[roadman]

some people like fat people dont put your self down try and pick your chin up both of them and keep your head held high people like confidence so if you own what you got and emit confidence then people will find that attractive

[ToraToraTora]

mozz 10:48, I need a lie down!

[pat2604]

Hi there, choose a site or forum that reflects your interests and join in discussions. Perhaps cooking? Often that results in meeting up with like minded people and get-togethers. It happens often on this site! Forget your weight and show your personality. Meantime try to lose a little weight. My lovely husband was overweight when we met up long before internet days. To me it was instant attraction! All to with personality!!

Good luck.

[Patsy33]

Personality always wins through with genuine people. I think everything has been said, which will help you. Best wishes. :-)

[davebro]

Just be glad you aren't old & ugly as well!